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1 countries

SeriousMarriage-MindedVerified Profiles

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Japan9/10

with (ウィズ) is a Japanese dating app developed by Ignis Ltd., built around personality and psychology-based matching. Supervised by Japanese psychologist and television personality DaiGo in its early years, with leans heavily on self-assessment quizzes, Big Five personality tests, and compatibility diagnostics to suggest partners. The app is one of Japan's top three dating platforms alongside Pairs and Tapple, and is particularly popular with users in their 20s looking for serious relationships or marriage. with requires identity verification using a government-issued ID and offers gender-differentiated pricing, with women using the core features free while men pay a monthly subscription to message matches.

Tags

Vibe

SeriousMarriage-Minded

Feature

Verified ProfilesAI Matching

Style

Q&A-BasedProfile-Based

At a Glance

Countries

1

DateAtlas Score

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Price Range

$25.00 - $25.00

per month

Top Country

Japan

What Users Say

with is Japan's most psychology-forward mainstream dating app, and it shows in how users engage. Rather than swiping through photos, members spend real time completing personality diagnostics that generate compatibility scores with potential matches. The app surfaces weekly and monthly themed events, often tied to a new psychology quiz, that give users a natural reason to re-engage. Profiles are long-form by Japanese standards, with structured fields for values, lifestyle, and what users are looking for. Verification is strict: a government ID is required before messaging, which noticeably reduces bots and escort spam compared to Western apps. The gender-asymmetric pricing (free for women, roughly 3,600 yen per month for men) is standard in Japan and tends to produce a reasonably balanced user base oriented toward serious dating and marriage. Downsides include the language barrier for non-Japanese speakers, a UX that can feel cluttered with campaigns, and a premium price point once men upgrade to VIP. For Japanese speakers seeking a thoughtful, marriage-minded platform, with is a top-tier pick.

Pros & Cons

Pros

  • Psychology and personality-driven matching
  • Strict government ID verification
  • Weekly compatibility events keep engagement high
  • Free core access for women
  • Strong user base oriented toward serious relationships
  • Detailed long-form profiles
  • Consistently ranked in Japan's top three dating apps

Cons

  • Japanese-only interface and user base
  • Men pay to message, limiting free experience
  • UI can feel busy with constant campaigns
  • VIP plan adds another layer of cost
  • Less suitable for casual dating

Pricing

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Detailed per-tier pricing with features for every subscription level is a DateAtlas Pro feature. Premium across the countries we track ranges from $25.00 to $25.00 per month.

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Where with Dominates

Countries where with ranks #1 by usage score among the apps we track.

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Is with free to use?
with requires a paid subscription to access most of its core features. Premium pricing in the countries we track ranges from $25.00 to $25.00 per month, depending on local market.
Is with safe?
with averages a safety score of 8/10 on DateAtlas's safety scale across the 1 countries we track — relatively high by our methodology and among the apps we track. This is DateAtlas's own editorial estimate based on the criteria in our methodology, not a guarantee of safety; always take your own precautions, meet matches in public places, and tell a friend where you're going. with also offers profile verification, which can help reduce fake accounts.
Does with have video chat?
No. with does not currently offer in-app video calling. You'll need to switch to a third-party app like FaceTime, WhatsApp, or Zoom once you've built rapport.
In how many countries does with work?
with is tracked by DateAtlas in 1 countries. The app's strongest market is Japan with a usage score of 9/10.
Is with popular in Japan?
Yes. with has a usage score of 9/10 in Japan, making it one of the most-used dating apps in the country.
What kind of dating is with best for?
Based on its feature set and audience, with is best described as: Serious, Marriage-Minded, Verified Profiles, AI Matching, Q&A-Based. Pick it if those vibes match what you're looking for.
Does with verify profiles?
Yes. with supports photo or ID verification, which helps you spot real users and avoid catfishing scams.

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Country Coverage

All 1 countries where with is tracked.

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Japan9/108/10$25.00
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